Let’s be honest: one day never feels like quite enough.

The build-up to your wedding can take months (or even years), and when the day finally arrives, it often goes past in a flash. That’s why more and more couples are opting for a wedding weekend – not just a single event, but a full experience. A few days to soak up time with your favourite people, make unforgettable memories, and turn your celebration into something that feels a bit like a mini holiday.

At Kilminorth, we specialise in exactly that kind of magic. Our tucked-away Cornish hideaway is made for those slow, sun-drenched, laughter-filled weekends, where love lingers in the air and the pace is completely your own. So, if you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s more than just a moment, here’s how to curate a three-day celebration that feels like a joyful escape with your people.

Start with Space – Emotionally and Logistically

The beauty of a wedding weekend lies in the freedom it gives you; to settle in, be present, and breathe. No racing between venues, no rushing through canapés before the next thing starts. At Kilminorth, everything is here: ceremony spots, reception space, on-site accommodation, and 32 acres of grounds.

This means your guests can arrive, unpack, and relax from the moment they get here. And you? You get time. Time to connect with everyone who’s come to celebrate with you. Time to savour the details you’ve spent months planning. Time to actually feel it all.

The welcome: Set the tone with ease

The first night sets the vibe for the whole weekend. And trust us, it doesn’t have to be a big production. Think firepits, festoon lighting, wood-fired pizza and your favourite playlist. Casual, cosy, and full of anticipation.

Here’s what some couples do on night one:

• Alfresco Pizza or a relaxed BBQ at Marley’s Bar
• Cocktails or Cornish cider around the firepit
• A sunset dinner with Valley views
• Guests arriving at different times, slowly filtering in, connecting, unwinding 

The key is that there’s no rush. No speeches. No timeline. Just togetherness, comfort, and the low hum of excitement before the big day.

The Wedding Day: A celebration with breathing room

When you’re not cramming everything into a single day, there’s a calm that takes over. You wake up slowly. You sip your morning coffee in the sunshine. You’re surrounded by your people, not vendors checking their watches. Your wedding day becomes about experiencing, not just executing.

At Kilminorth, the flow can often look like this depending on your vibe:

• A gentle morning – breakfast with your bridal party, a swim, maybe even a yoga session in the wild meadow
  
• Hair and makeup in your quant Cornish cottage, with your favourite tunes and zero stress
  
• A ceremony at the Chy Hos altar, under open skies and rustling trees
  
• An afternoon of relaxed drinks, grazing boards, acoustic music, and mingling in the sunshine
  
• Dinner in the clear-top marquee – think laughter, dancing, a napkin wave or two
  
• Firepit chats, toasting marshmallows, and nightcaps under the stars

Of course, you can build it your way. It might be colourful and high-energy, or soft and simple. The joy of the weekend is that there’s room for both.

The Day After: Soaking in the glow

This might just be our favourite part. There’s something incredibly special about waking up the day after your wedding, surrounded by friends and family, with no pressure to dash off on a honeymoon or clear the tables.

You’re still riding that emotional high – and now you get to experience the afterglow together. Whether it’s a big brunch, a poolside day, or a woodland walk to clear your heads, the final day rounds off the experience with a beautiful sense of calm.

Some couples plan:

• A full Cornish breakfast or grazing brunch
• Lawn games or “Sunday Club” vibes
• Pool Party fun
• Silent Disco 
• Farewell hampers or little thank-you notes

It’s the soft landing you didn’t know you needed.

Personalise the weekend to suit your people

The beauty of a wedding weekend is that you get to build a rhythm that works for you and your guests.

Want a yoga class in the woods? We can make that happen. Fancy a silent disco or surprise karaoke takeover? Absolutely. Need to keep things chilled for little ones or older guests? Done.

You can break up the weekend with little moments of surprise and delight, from handwritten notes on the tables to a pop-up coffee cart, personalised playlists, or late-night toasties. The idea is to create your kind of celebration – unhurried, heartfelt, and full of meaning.

Why a weekend wedding really works

Let’s be clear; a one-day wedding can be absolutely stunning. For many couples, it’s exactly the right fit. But if you’ve ever wished you had more time to spend with each guest, more room for joy, or more chances to connect… a wedding weekend might just be for you.

Here’s why couples love the full experience:

• Less stress, more flow – You’re not trying to cram it all in
• Deeper connections – Your guests have time to actually talk and bond
• More memories – Not just one moment, but a full arc of celebration
• It feels like a retreat – Everyone gets a break from the real world

And the best part? It doesn’t need to be complicated. At Kilminorth, the space and support are already here – you just add your story.

So… is a three-day wedding right for you?

If you’re the kind of couple who wants to press pause, bring everyone together, and make the most of this once-in-a-lifetime gathering – then absolutely. We’re here to help you build a weekend that’s as vibrant or relaxed as you want it to be. A place where barefoot dancing, long-table dinners, spontaneous singalongs and morning-after laughter are all part of the story. Not just a wedding, but a feeling of warmth, of freedom, of unforgettable joy.

Ready to create your own wedding weekend?

We’d love to show you around, hear your ideas, and chat about what your perfect three-day celebration could look like. Whether you’ve already got a Pinterest board or you’re just starting to dream, Kilminorth is ready when you are.