So… you said yes!

There’s that sparkle on your finger, messages pinging in from friends and family, and a constant smile every time you catch your reflection. You’re newly engaged – and it feels amazing. But then, just as quickly, that next big question pops up: “Where do we even start?”

If that sounds familiar, take a breath. This part – the in-between – is special. It’s the calm before the planning, the start of a story that’s completely yours. And here at Kilminorth, we’re big believers that wedding planning shouldn’t be rushed. It should be savoured.

Between November and February, something magical happens across Cornwall and beyond – it’s engagement season. There’s something about the sparkle of Christmas lights, crackling fires, and crisp air that makes it the most romantic time of the year. The season of surprises, of down-on-one-knee moments on windswept beaches or under twinkling lights. It’s also the time when couples begin their wedding journey, when dreams start to take shape and ideas begin to unfold.

Step one: celebrate first

Before you dive into Pinterest boards or spreadsheets, stop and enjoy it. Go out for dinner. Share the news. Take photos. Sit in the moment together. You’ve made a lifelong promise to one another, and that’s something worth celebrating properly. Once you’ve soaked up all that excitement, then you can start to gently ease into planning.

Step two: discover your vision

You don’t need to know every detail right now, but start with what feels right. Do you picture an intimate ceremony surrounded by trees? A big celebration under a marquee? A weekend-long party with everyone staying on-site together? At Kilminorth, we’ve seen every version of love story, and no two weddings ever look the same. Some couples fill the grounds with festival-style décor and live bands, while others keep it small, elegant, and deeply personal. Whatever your style, finding the right venue is all about emotion. It’s not about ticking boxes, it’s about how it feels.

Step three: explore the magic of place

When couples visit Kilminorth for the first time, they often say the same thing: “We could see ourselves here.”

Set in 32 acres of Cornish countryside, Kilminorth feels both hidden and open. A tucked-away haven surrounded by woodland, meadows, and skies that turn gold at sunset. You can hold your ceremony outdoors, celebrate under the clear-top marquee, and dance under the stars, all without ever leaving our gorgeous grounds.

And when the night ends? You and your guests simply wander back to your on-site cottages, just a short walk away through the trees. No taxis, no stress, just that peaceful, glowing feeling that the day couldn’t have been more perfect.

Step four: find your people

A wedding is built by people – your suppliers, your friends, your family. Having the right team makes all the difference. At Kilminorth, we only recommend suppliers who share our ethos: creative, reliable, and genuinely passionate about what they do. From caterers who serve up unforgettable feasts to photographers who capture every golden moment, our network of trusted suppliers know Kilminorth inside out. You can bring your own dream team too, and we love seeing each couple’s individuality shine through.

Step five: plan without pressure

The beauty of starting your wedding journey in engagement season is that you have time. Most couples start planning around 18 – 24 months before their date, which gives plenty of breathing room to secure the venue, book your key suppliers, and enjoy the process. You don’t have to do it all at once, and honestly, you shouldn’t. Afterall, weddings are about connection, celebration, and joy

Step six: make memories along the way

Why not turn your venue visits into little getaways? Many of our couples book a weekend at Kilminorth while planning. Enjoy a stay in one of our self-catered cottages with private hot tubs, woodland walks, and countryside views. It’s a chance to step away from daily life, reconnect, and dream together. Those quiet moments, coffee in the morning light, walking hand-in-hand through the meadows, picturing your day are often the ones couples remember most.

Step seven: let it be yours

At Kilminorth, no two weddings are ever the same. That’s what we love most. We’ve seen dogs walk down the aisle, pizza vans under the stars, and first dances in wellies. The possibilities are endless, because this is your story, and we’re simply here to help you tell it.

So, whether you’re newly engaged or knee-deep in ideas, remember: the best weddings start with a feeling and if you’re looking for a place where nature, comfort, and celebration meet, Kilminorth might just be where your journey begins.

Book a private viewing or get in touch to start the conversation. We can’t wait to meet you.